Wednesday, October 24, 2007

All that I really know about relations...

God gave us relatives nd he left it t us to choose our friends... Once we are out into the wide world, we get to meet many ... At school the one with whom you play around,share your chocolates.. nd all, get to be known as your friend... And when it is into college, relationships get more broadly classified... "hi-bye friends" ,"gang of friends", Well there is a trend set of "bro-sis" relationship too... nd ofcourse the most popular one.. "best friend(s)" ...
Hi-bye friends--- Hmm.. we see dem at times, say a hi.. nd leave dem saying a bye... they mean nothing t us...
Gang of friends--- Ohhh.. De freaks with whom you can have all the fun with... You feel like 'rocking' with them... But still, they are not everything to you.... dont tell me that they 'll be there, when you are in deep shit... Somtimes they wont even get t know about it...
Bro-Sis relationship--- wow wow... what to say about it.... Somtimes its lik dis; a guy proposes a gal... and she would say "u r lik a brother to me.." (kyu, ho gaya na neyi shuruvaath..hehe)
The reverse also happens... that s; they 'll be bro-sis in the start and end up with a love story... So why do they spoil the distinction of that relation.... emmm..But there are some.. the so called "bro-sis" those who really mean to be so.... and care for each other....
Best friend(s) ---- well you'll be having one ... So what is this best friend like... Is that someone with whom you dont get bored... a person t whom you share all your secrets... a person to whom you tell all your troubles.... a person you never wanna lose...
Well i would say; its someone to whom u dont need to talk often,but still they are bonded each other... someone to whom u never need to share your secrets, coz they already knows it...
Dat someone, who 'll see that you are in trouble, with out hearing a word from you... You 'll never have to explain your actions to them,coz they truely knows you... You 'll never have the fear of losing dat someone...
So that is all about the relations u've choosen... All of these has got an expiry date...
I belive in keeping myself away from complicated relationships nd commitments... dat is somthing solely related to me.. And there are some 'relationships' that you never has to choose, it just happens in your life... Everybody whom i've chosen in my life 'll get expired one day... but those whom god have chosen for me 'll remain...
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10 comments:

Rare Rose said...

entammo....blogs nte flow aanallo....aadyathe 2 blogs um digest cheyyan alpum visamam aayirinnu...but tis one abt relationship is simple....and it is real!!!!!!!!!!...inium aa thalayil ideas potty mulakkate ennu aasamsikkunnu...

Anonymous said...

hey...am i a chosen one for u by god, sum1 whom will never be expired....

all the things u have said in this post is aboslutely true...sometimes we may thing of sum1 as our best friend but lemme tell u, before declaring or certifying sum1 as ur best friend be sure about it.....for me my best friends are u didi and then "u know who".........

M Mathew said...

@rohan...
well i guess u know abt it... and if u still wanna hear it from me.... yupee, i never had to choose you.... nd u wont be expired ever...

and bro.. i knw wat u r sayin....

Anonymous said...

i am blessed......

Anonymous said...

ya..a friend s one who gets to stay with u in all the situations!!!!
and we dont have to push anyone to be our best friend ...it juz happens!!!! thats d friend u r to me darlin....

M Mathew said...

@maria...
we 'll b the way we r, forever and for always... jus knw dat i care for you...

Runner said...

Ur my frnd for just an year...but ur alwyz in my mind still now...i think thats why we met again .....anyway thank god for this unexpired relationship...

M Mathew said...

@anu....
yes..happy to see u again....

Anish said...

I am not able to compile this...

I even not know about different kinds.

For me it comes as a endless stream of love.

may be it is because of the difference between Engg: College life and Ordinary

M Mathew said...

@humanity
na.. its nt somthing dats jus seen in an engg cllg... may b u dnt feel diffrnce btwn ur frnds... bt its der.. all relatns are diffrnt...